Wednesday, November 5, 2014

our 20th!

He asked, I said "yes" The Navy chaplain who counseled us said we had nothing in common and would not last a year.
Well, here we are 20 years later. It has not been an easy road- lots of stupidity, trials, and tribulations.
But through all those dark times, the one word never uttered from either of us was "Divorce".
Somehow, through the grace of God we kept it together.And now  2 wonderful boys and 20 years later we are still together.
Being with Senior makes me a better person. He is my best friend, my love, and my soul mate. He is a awesome husband and loving and caring father.
Thank You for the past 20 years, I pray God blesses us with another 20.


16 comments:

  1. A couple really does have to work very hard to keep a marriage going. When one of them is often away from home on a deployment, it's even harder. I hope you two have many more years together, and that they are happy ones all.

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    1. It was a bit rough at times. Senior and I are both thankful that we were not blessed with kids until his last year of sea duty. Then he went over to shore duty, and was able to be there with our babies.
      I believe it was 2001-2002 Senior had a CO that was a geo bachelor. That man would volunteer their ship for everything. That year he was only home a total of 1 week....

      Thanks for your sweet wishes Harry

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  2. Well cut the chaplain a little slack there though. I mean according to your announced timeline of your life you were only 9 when ya got married. He couldn't see how you would change and all. :)

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  3. i know ! getting married in the 4th grade was hard, that next day I had a social studies test and had to study on our wedding night..lol

    Thanks Though!

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  4. JUGM,

    Happy 20th Anniversary to you and Senior! An Anniversary is a time to celebrate the joys of today, the memories of yesterday, and the hopes of tomorrow.
    Here's to many more!!!
    Hugs and love to you, Senior, and Your Boys
    Sandy

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  5. congrats jugm!!

    super happy for you guys - have the best of days and rejoice!!!

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  6. oh Gurlie - i was all crying like a girl after reading your post....but then i saw PP's comment and started laughing! i am so proud of you both - you are awesome people and awesome friends and i wish you 20X20 more years together! congrats, babe - THAT is an accomplishment. the fact that you got 2 beautiful boys out of the deal - well that's just icing on the cake.

    much love to you and yours ALWAYS! your friend,
    kymber

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    1. Then you should head over and see the beutiful post and tribute Senior did. He posted it last night and I was in tears...

      Thanks my friend! in a age when divorce is so easy, we stuck it out and learned how much we truly do love each ot

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    2. dumb blogger...published before I was done... lol

      We learned that we truly did love each other....

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  7. Happy 20th Anniversary. Marriage is a lot of work on both parts. You got to live through it all, together, to really appreciate each other. Congratulations to both of you!

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  8. Congrats to y'all, and here's hoping for 20 more!!!

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