Tuesday, April 2, 2013
Memories
This is a scene that will forever be in my memories of being a Navy Wife. How many countless mornings, did I drop Senior off before he got underway, or how many times did I pass this on a daily basis going to and from work.
I loved being apart of the active duty community, I loved feeling the sense of family with the ships we were on and our divisions. We were all so close knit. Parties at this one or that ones house on the weekends, week night softball games....yea, those were the days all right.
I was so proud to be able to see something every day that most people never got to see. Those majestic ships, the guys standing in formation for morning muster, and then standing at attention for the raising of "The Colors". Going on board like it was a second home, Taking Senior dinner and hanging out on his duty days. Once, He had the mid watch on the Quarter Deck, and I drove out to sit outside with him in the wee hours of the morning.
It makes me sad to think of the way our government is depleting our forces, and the readiness of our military. We were once a mighty fighting force, now we can hardly afford to pay our troops. And the moral is rumored to be at an all time low. The kids in now will never know the Navy that I knew. Today it is all high tech, with email and chats... A Navy wife's biggest fear is the email being down...
She will never know what it is like to get numbered letters a stack at a time. She will never know what is like to get a surprise phone call saying the ship pulled in. Now with video chats, she will never know what its like to go six months without seeing your sailor. Once that ship untied, and got underway..that was it, until the end of deployment.
Yea, all those days are long gone..seeing that picture brought it all back to me..memories forever etched in time.
-JUGM
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Sweet story ☺
ReplyDeleteProgress is not all it is cracked up to be. There is nothing quite as nice as a handwritten letter from family or a friend.
ReplyDeleteKelly: Thanks!
ReplyDeleteBeth: Especially when that family is deployed on a ship for 6 months at a time, and you get an entire stack of them. : )
Awwwww That was such a nice story. But you had to like marry a sailor and stuff and missed out on the real men who were in the ARMY!!!!
ReplyDeleteSorry I couldn't resist a little cross branch dig :)
I used to do alot of comforting around Naval bases :)
Awww...very nice. My hubby was in the army and went to Iraq, but that before us.
ReplyDeleteHappy April!
Funny, that was the discussion I had tonight at dinner with a retiring CAPT (on 40 years). He's a mustang and we were talking about the problems chat and email are causing with deployed sailors... It wasn't the 'best' back in the day, but I think the families that survived those times were the strongest!
ReplyDeletePP: I am sure you did lots of comforting.. Army uh? Guess the marines turned you down...lol
ReplyDeleteSM: Thanks Sweety!
NFO: I use to get a laugh all the time at the newbie little brides and the complaints about duty days, and email etc... The looks on the faces when i told them what it use to be like in the good ole days..
Yep, letters with numbers and wondering whereinhell the 'missing' letter went... And what it said... and a 3-4 week turnaround to get an answer to a question... Y'all took up the slack and got it done, usually before we even had a chance to make a recommendation or answer y'all back.
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